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What did you get? Gold? Silver? or Bronze?

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

You can bet your life many TV viewers qualified for a medal in the recent games. They sat up into the small hours, cheering Aussie heroes between mouthfuls of coffee, then, after a nap, headed off to work trying vainly to look bright-eyed and bushy-tailed.

London was a viewing marathon. The total number of people hours occupied in watching the spectacle is a figure we will never know. What stands out in your memory?

The winners

We are all the same. We are interested in the winners, especially the winners from our country. Then we can say, “We won the medal!” We share the thrill of standing on the winners’ podium listening to the music playing, while starry eyes turn heavenward and tears of joy flow earthward.

The ‘also rans’ are soon forgotten; their faces and names mean little to us.

The losers

There are, of course, some losers that stand out: Those who were sent home, those who were disqualified, those who were injured, those in despair over some unforeseen turnaround. Faces were twisted into a picture of pure agony, while tears of frustration and bitter disappointment flowed freely. Years of preparation had come to nothing. Hopes and dreams were dashed to little pieces. Helplessness prevailed.

Life’s like that

Winning and losing is almost what life is all about. Every day we experience both to some degree. The feeling common to most of us is that we don’t get our own way easily. Losing is easier than winning — in fact you can lose without even trying.

The conclusion that seems very common today is that ‘luck’ or ‘fate’ dictate what happens in life, so If you happen to be one of those unlucky in life, so to speak, too bad for you. Everything will go wrong. If someone seems to be successful, either they are lucky or they cheated.

Thinking in a groove

This same mentality rules people when they think about the end of life. Too bad, we die. Too bad if there is a heaven and we don’t make it. Good luck if we do.

However, the truth is that pleasing God and making it into heaven have nothing at all to do with luck. Nor has it anything to do with being a personal achiever — a winner. It is altogether different with God. The only one who appears before Him on the winner’s stand is Jesus Christ. Only He is worthy of it.

How badly understood this is! The vast majority think they will go to heaven if they are good enough. Yet the Bible teaches something quite different.

The people who find full acceptance with God are those who are acknowledged failures. They come to the point of seeing that there are no truly good (perfect) people, no true winners. They see that they have utterly failed to please God and that all the trying in the world won’t bring success.

Heaven will be full of people who have reached out empty hands to a God of generosity. They will be there because of His love and kindness and for no other reason. Christ won the crown for them. All they did was receive it. For it is by grace (God’s undeserved love) you have been saved through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God (Ephesians 2:8).

It is true that you can’t win without Christ. It is true that you can’t lose with Him.

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Unlikely contestants in the games

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

So you are not going to London to participate in the Games? Well, you had better take note — you are in the contest right now. Think of it. You may not be a professional hurdler but there are a few hurdles in front of you to get over.

You are trying to balance the budget and you need to perform some gymnastics to do it. See, you are in the swim and you must keep your head above water. There is work to be done, a life to be lived and you must dive in and do your best.

You’re not a wrestler but there are problems waiting to be wrestled with. You are in the ring and the fight is on. No doubt you feel the weight of your duties, and you need a surge of strength to lift them. Remember, the target is up ahead, so take good aim.

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Beware: anger is boiling everywhere!

BY ALAN BAILEY

It’s not hard to see. For some reason, anger is alive and well, roaring like an escaped lion.

On the news we see people becoming enraged on the roads for some triviality, ready to smash people and their motor cars. I saw an all-in brawl among youngsters at a skateboard park. Then I noted the uncontrolled passion of an ex-husband who wants to murder all who have opposed him.

Anger is also stalking the sports field among players and spectators. Earlier this year, a professional tennis player smashed no less than four racquets in a temper tantrum. There they were, all pathetically wrecked, fit only for the rubbish bin.

So what is going on? Why are so many people so quickly aroused to boiling point?

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Our most serious disease

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

The cry of the present day seems to be “Get outta my way!”

You see the grimace on the face of the man or woman who was beaten to the parking bay at the supermarket. At times it will be heard in the impatient blowing of the car horn or the shouted insult. At least in the western world, considering oneself first has become the rule of life. Individualism has gone mad. Richard Dawkins blames what he calls the ’selfish gene’. It strikes me that it has much more to do with the conscious choices we make.

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Are you hanging by a thread?

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

How scary is that! I saw it on television just the other day. A young couple suspended over a huge ravine in New Zealand, meant to be experiencing a bungy jump—but something was going very wrong.

The two were supposed to be seated, held by a kind of harness. But the girl’s had broken and she was barely hanging on. Her boyfriend grasped a piece of the gear hoping to prevent her from falling. Down below, a long, long, way was a river bed. After what seemed an age the operators pulled them back to safety. The lady was too traumatised to speak.

Maybe it sounds a bit far-fetched, but isn’t this where we all are—hanging by a thin thread? I mean, our lives are not bullet-proof; there is no guarantee that we are safe and secure.

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Having Healthy Relationships

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

So much of life seems to be a network of relationships. Apparently we are built to relate to others around us. It is part of being human. It means so much to have a friend, a sister, a brother, a mother, a father, a wife or a husband. Happy is the person who can experience the nearness of others who have an interest in them and even a stake in their lives. Happy is the person who can say that the relationships in their lives, especially the close ones, are healthy and well maintained. Love given and love received is a great recipe for happiness.

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Miscarriages of Justice

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By Alan Bailey

Every now and then we hear of someone being released from prison after wrongfully serving part of a lengthy sentence. It is a sad situation when an innocent man suffers the indignity, the pain and the loss of reputation that goes with being declared guilty and then locked away. It is hard to imagine how you would feel in that situation; grieved, frustrated, angry? And what of those who are put to death, only to be found innocent after all?

There are many reasons why these events occur. Sometimes it is a wicked plot and a web of lies that secures a man’s conviction. Sometimes an unfortunate set of coincidences that incriminate, even convincing judge and jury. Then a drawn-out process can take years to bring the truth to light and set the prisoner free.Continue reading

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NO-ONE CARES FOR ME!

Tips for Life

By Alan Bailey

I think it is fair to say that life can be described as a struggle. Survival seems to be the name of the game. People appear to look after themselves as best they can, leaving everyone else to find their own way.

Protecting oneself and one’s belongings is all important, for theft and violence abound. So, many barricade themselves in, to keep the world around them out.

We can’t live in isolation

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THE PLANET’S CELESTIAL VISITOR

Tips for Life
by ALAN BAILEY

UFOs and aliens are back in the news, perhaps more than ever. People in high places are giving a good deal of credit to alleged sightings and reports of alien activity at nuclear and military establishments. Are we being visited by completely unknown creatures? Are they going to do us good or harm? Or is it all hocus-pocus?

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Being blissfully unaware

Tips for Life

by Alan Bailey

Peoples’ lives are often violently interrupted. News has gone around the world in recent days of earthquakes and a tsunami which have caused many deaths and huge devastation. We almost get used to hearing such reports.

In certain places, calamities are bound to happen. Cities are built on fault lines. Large populations live on low ground subject to flooding. Tornadoes often occur in a known strip across a country. To live there is like sitting on a time bomb. Sooner or later it will explode. Yet, life goes on in these places, daily cares being the focal point. The people are largely unconscious of potential dangers.Continue reading

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